​The Decalogue to avoid a premature ejaculation


11 February 2014  - 
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​The Decalogue to avoid a premature ejaculation

Unless we are hummingbirds, nobody likes that his sexual life repeatedly lasts one minute. We don’t always get a passionate outburst in a car, or during a walk through the forest, sometimes, we’d rather have a romantic session which includes different positions, novelties and games. Thus, it’s necessary to get an appropriate pace for both partners.

This unexpected and categorical mood-killer can become the perfect excuse to have nicer sex where the man won’t be able to overuse his penis and is devoted to practice different things to his partner as interesting as caresses and kisses, massages, etc.

Well-known sexologists of the United States like Albert Ellis or Joel Block are studying it, these are some of their recommendations. You’d better pay attention to them and give your best to practice them because otherwise you’ll get alone and abandoned and worse, you’ll get a bad reputation.

If you are a premature ejaculator, you should accept your condition and also accept you’ll have to make efforts to avoid greater problems.That’s a better option than worrying and obsessing about this matter. Every man can be a victim of this. If you were born under this condition, you’ll have to learn the best way to face it.

The fact that you get satisfied and touch the sky in a minute doesn’t mean that your duties end here. You should keep in mind your partner’s sexual pleasure. You can delay your climax by getting lost in games, massages and practicing oral sex to your lover, etc.

Despite your efforts, it may happen that you aren’t able to get great fucks every time you have sex. You shouldn’t force yourself to be a sexual machine every time you get into intimate moments. Pressuring yourself psychologically will get the worst part of you. Prohibiting the premature ejaculation is the best way to ejaculate in ten seconds. If this happens, you should then simply devote to your lover, and give all the pleasure you are able to.

Don’t avoid sex because you are afraid to be as fast as a bullet. If you avoid having it, it will become a greater problem because the day you can’t avoid it for longer you’ll get a premature ejaculation for sure. And, that will make all your fears be real.

Forget about satisfying your lover only with your penis. Most women need more to reach orgasm and most men can’t hold their cum all the time women need to reach it. So, forget the idea that you have to do everything with your penis and start using your tongue and hands. The aim of this is that not only you get satisfied, but also your lover. It may seem obvious, but sexologists repeat it endlessly in their consulting rooms.

It’s normal that we look for perfection, if we are taking part in a quiz or an exam, but we should look for mutual satisfaction and pleasure in our sexual encounters with our couple. The healthiest way to conceive sexual encounters is the same way as we conceive life: sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, but you always learn something. Submitting to perfection add extra pressure to the date, so we will have more possibilities to ruin it.

Talk openly and frankly to your couple about his or her sexual desires, likings and limits. Together, you’ll come to the best way of being satisfied. You shouldn’t let anyone despise you under no circumstances, it would be the same as looking down on someone who is bald, or a bad athlete. Don’t apologise because of something you aren’t able to control, but don’t forget to give the same satisfaction you received, or even much more.

The more you think you are only able to make a woman reach orgasm through your penis, the less you’ll be able to do it. The anxiety produced the idea that your penis should work exactly the way it doesn’t work will make your problem get bigger and you’ll get worse complications.

You should remind that emotions lead us to have a view without perspectives, but every human still does it, so they don’t get good intimate moments. If you are able to think over it, you’ll see you are giving too much importance to it. If you get the way to empathise and fully satisfy your lover -and there are a thousand ways to do it-, the fact of being a premature ejaculator won’t be a problem anymore.

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